B.I.G. Forevah

I’m not referring to Christopher ‘Notorius B.I.G.’ Wallace. Nope, this is no ode to him.

This is an ode to sisterhood, specifically that which I share with my big sister, Sonia Dee, AKA Noneni (thanks to my little bro).

She is turning the big 3-0 tomorrow and thought it only right to show love. I think too often, sisterhood is undermined. I have been fortunate to have my blood sister as one of my closest friends. It hasn’t always been this way – we used to fight the heck. But one thing always remained constant. No matter how much we fought, I admired her. She could do no wrong in my eyes and I used to brag to all my friends about how cool my big sister was. Obviously, we’re grown and do correct one another where the need is, but my admiration for her has only grown stronger.

Over the course of time, we went our separate ways – me to boarding school and then to different varsities. 2011 saw us coming back together when I moved to Johannesburg and ours is a relationship that has developed and strengthened over time. It hasn’t always been easy, but I salute you today Sonie AKA my B.I.G. These are but a few reasons why I love you girlaaaah 🙂

30 Reasons I Am Thankful For Sonia Dee

  1. Thank you for telling me my dress sense was whack when I was in high school (coz it really was) and helping me evolve into who I am today
  2. Thank you for being so cool
  3. Thank you for teaching me the true meaning of knowing and loving God
  4. Thank you for praying with me
  5. Thank you for praying for me
  6. Thank you for laughing with me
  7. Thank you for advising me
  8. Thank you for experiencing life with me
  9. Thank you for caring for me
  10. Thank you for fighting for me when I had no fight left in me
  11. Thank you for having my back (ride-but-no-need-to-die)
  12. Thank you for tolerating my million questions
  13. Thank you for being a shoulder to cry on
  14. Thank you for pursuing your passion relentlessly (check her awesomeness out at blackafricanwoman.org)
  15. Thank you for inspiring so many people to want to be the best they can be
  16. Thank you for always lending an ear
  17. Thank you for being the glue in our family
  18. Thank you for challenging us all
  19. Thank you for truly embracing the role of big sis with no complaints
  20. Thank you for tolerating my cray
  21. Thank you for the whack humour you bring
  22. Thank you for thinking your gee when you really ain’t (it validates my gee :P)
  23. Thank you for being one of my greatest cheerleaders
  24. Thank you for keeping me in check
  25. Thank you for helping me see my worth
  26. Thank you for seeing things in me that I can’t always see in myself
  27. Thank you for caring about others
  28. Thank you for your passion for people
  29. Thank you for loving God
  30. Thank you for being you


Your little sis.


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